Lub cwm pwm ntawm lub compulsive shopaholic
Cov tsos mob ntawm cov khoom noj yog dab tsi? Nyob rau hauv kev coj noj coj ua, cov duab ntawm ib tug neeg muag khoom compulsive yog ib tug zoo siab, superficial hluas nkauj txhawj xeeb nrog me ntsis ntau tshaj li cov khau tshiab thiab handbags. Cov koob npe ntawm cov "Confessions of a Shopaholic" cov phau ntawv thiab cov yeeb yaj kiab tau hais txog qhov tsis txaus siab ntawm daim duab no.
Tiam sis kev tshawb nrhiav cov duab txawv ntawm qhov tsis zoo no to taub.
Ntawm no yog saib rau hauv lub hlwb ntawm ib tus shopaholic uas muaj tseeb.
Lub Shopaholic Pom Zoo Pom Zoo Ntawm Lwm Tus
Cov khoom lag luam lossis tus cwj pwm khw muag khoom tau pom muaj ntau dua cov kev tshawb fawb tsis yog-cov kev tshawb fawb tshawb nrhiav, txhais tau hais tias lawv muaj kev sib haum xeeb, kev xav txhawb thiab tsis ua rau lwm tus. Feem ntau kho siab thiab raug rho tawm, kev lag luam muaj kev lag luam muaj kev lag luam nrog cov kev sib tshuam nrog cov neeg muag khoom thiab kev cia siab tias qhov lawv tau ua yuav zoo dua lawv cov kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus. Shopaholics kuj muaj txoj kev xav kom yooj yim los ntawm lwm tus neeg.
Qhov xwm zoo yog tias koj yog ib tus shopaholic yog tias muaj hom kev zoo siab, pom tau tias yuav yooj yim rau koj los tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo yog tias koj nrhiav kev kho mob rau koj txoj kev tiv thaiv. Qhov hom kev tus cwj pwm no kuj tseem yuav qhia koj kom ua raws li cov lus qhia ntawm koj tus kws kho mob thiab kom muaj kev txhawb zog ntawm lwm tus neeg hauv kev pab kho mob .
Lub Shopaholic Muaj Tus Kheej Uas Muaj Tus Kheej
Qes yus tus kheej yog ib qho ntawm feem ntau pom cov yeeb yam hauv cov kev tshawb fawb ntawm tus cwj pwm kev lag luam. Txoj kev ua lag luam yog ib txoj kev sim los txhim kho nws tus kheej, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum yam khoom xav tau yog txuam nrog ib daim duab ntawm qhov tus neeg xa khoom xav ua. Tab sis qis self-esteem kuj tseem yog ib qho txiaj ntsim ntawm kev haus luam yeeb, tshwj xeeb yog cov nuj nqis yuav ua rau cov kev xav tsis zoo thiab kev tsis muaj nqis.
Qhov xwm zoo yog qhov uas tob rau nws tus kheej, nrog rau kev pab ntawm ib tus kws kho mob, koj yuav paub tias muaj ntau yam txog qhov tseeb ntawm koj tus kheej, xws li koj lub siab zoo, hais saum toj no.
Lub Shopaholic Cov Kev Xiam Hlwb
Raws li kev pom zoo rau cov kev ntxhov siab tsis zoo los yog kev xav vam meej, cov kev tshawb fawb kuj pom tias cov khoom pheej yig feem ntau raug kev txom nyem los ntawm kev ntxhov siab thiab kev nyuaj siab . Kev lag luam feem ntau siv los ua ib txoj kev txhawb nqa cov ntsuj plig, tab txawm tau mus ib ntus.
Qhov xwm zoo yog tias kev ntxhov siab thiab kev nyuaj siab kho tau nrog kev puas siab puas ntsws thiab kev kho mob, yog tias tsim nyog. Cov kev kho mob no zoo tshaj li qhov tsis txaus siab luv luv ntawm kev yuav khoom.
Lub Shopaholic Muaj Teeb Meem Tswj Impulses
Impulses yog ntuj - ib qho kev mob siab, mob siab khaus ua ib yam dab tsi rau koj, thiab koj xav tias yuav tsum tau ua. Cov neeg feem coob pom nws yooj yim heev los tswj lawv cov kev xav tsis zoo thiab kawm ua li ntawd thaum yau. Shopaholics, ntawm qhov tod tes, nrhiav impulses, tshwj xeeb yog impulses uas koom nrog yuav ib yam dab tsi, ob qho yooj yim thiab tsis tau.
Qhov xwm zoo yog tias koj tuaj yeem tswj hwm koj qhov kev cia siab siv, tshwj xeeb yog tias koj kam nrog rau lwm yam teeb meem.
Lub Shopaholic Indulges hauv Fantasy
Lub peev xwm los xav saib yog muaj zog hauv shopaholics dua li nws yog nyob rau lwm tus neeg.
Muaj ntau txoj hauv kev uas xav tau kev txhawb nqa qhov kev xav mus yuav ntau dhau. Tus shopaholic nyiam ua qhov kev lom zem ntawm khw thaum mus koom nrog lwm yam kev ua ub no; lawv tuaj yeem xav txog txhua yam kev zoo ntawm kev yuav khoom yam khoom, thiab lawv tuaj yeem khiav dim mus rau hauv lub ntiaj teb ua kom muaj kev nyuaj siab hauv lub neej.
Cov xov xwm zoo rau cov kev lag luam yog tias muaj lub peev xwm rau kev xav muaj peev xwm heev thaum lub sij hawm kev kho mob thiab yuav pab tau qhov kev txawj ntse uas yuav pab koj kov yeej koj txoj kev tiv thaiv, xws li kev cob qhia so kom txaus.
Lub Shopaholic yog Materialistic
Cov kev tshawb xyuas pom tau tias cov khw muag khoom muaj nqis ntau dua li lwm cov neeg yuav khoom, tab sis kuj tsis yooj yim rau lawv txoj kev hlub ntawm cov khoom ntiag tug.
Lawv yog cov neeg tsis paub txog yam tsis muaj txiaj ntsig thiab tsis tshua muaj neeg tsav tsheb mus rau lwm qhov tshaj li lwm cov neeg yuav khoom, uas piav txog vim li cas shopaholics muas khoom lawv tsis xav tau lossis siv.
Yog li cas lawv ho materialistic ntau? Qhov tshij, muaj ob yam ntxiv rau materialism, kev khib, thiab tsis yog pub dawb, thiab cov no yog qhov tsis muaj zog ntawm cov khw muag khoom. Nkawd muaj kev khav theeb ntau dua thiab tsis muaj ntau yam zoo dua li lwm tus. Qhov no yog ib qho txawv, muab qhov tseeb tias khoom plig yog ib qho kev yuav khoom ntawm shopaholics, tab sis qhov no zoo li yog ib qho kev sim rau "yuav" kev hlub thiab nce kev sib raug zoo, es tsis yog txoj cai ntawm generosity.
Qhov xwm zoo yog qhov uas ua rau koj tus kheej thiab koj txoj kev muaj peev xwm mus txuas nrog lwm tus hauv kev zoo, koj yuav poob siab rau koj txoj kev ntseeg hais tias kev hlub thiab kev qhuas yuav tau yuav.
Hauv kev tshawb nrhiav yam uas koj muaj tiag tiag, koj yuav tsis xav tias yuav tsum tau nkaum tom qab tus duab nce los ntawm kev tshaj tawm. Koj tuaj yeem ua koj tus kheej thiab nyob hauv koj txhais tes.
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