Kawm kom pom cov tsos mob thiab yooj yim rau kev hloov
Thaum nws tuaj yeem txav, kev nyuaj siab hauv koj tus menyuam tej zaum yuav tsis yog qhov kev txhawj xeeb uas xub xub pib. Txawm li cas los xij, qee qhov kev tshawb fawb qhia tau hais tias tsiv, tshwj xeeb yog kev hloov mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv tshiab, yuav ua rau muaj kev ntxhov siab hauv tus me nyuam.
Qhov no yog, ntawm chav kawm, tsuas yog ib tug tau. Txawm hais tias kev tshawb fawb pom tias kev sib txuas ntawm kev tsiv thiab kev nyuaj siab hauv cov menyuam yaus , qhov ntawd tsis txhais hais tias txhua tus me nyuam yuav raug cuam tshuam los ntawm qhov no.
Koj yuav tsum txiav txim siab yog qhov zoo rau koj thiab koj tsev neeg thiab qhov uas tsuas yog ua rau koj tsiv mus. Qhov zoo ces, muaj ob peb yam uas koj thiab lwm tus niam txiv muaj peev xwm ua tau los ua kom txoj kev hloov mus rau koj tus menyuam thiab lub neej zoo siab hauv nws lub tsev tshiab.
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Qee zaum cov ntsiab lus ntawm kev txav yog tsis-negotiable, tab sis yog tias muaj qee qhov yooj yim rau hauv koj qhov teeb meem, nws muaj qee yam tseem ceeb uas yuav ua rau txoj kev hloov yooj yim dua rau koj tus menyuam. Thaum twg ua tau, cia koj tus menyuam nyob hauv tib lub tsev kawm ntawv lossis lub tsev kawm ntawm tib lub district. Kev tshawb nrhiav tau pom tias cov tsev kawm ntawv yuav txav mus rau qhov nyuaj rau cov menyuam nyob rau hauv tsev kawm ntawv theem qis thiab theem nrab.
Yog tias koj tus me nyuam tau dhau los poob qis dhau los ntawm kev kawm ntawv, tsiv mus rau ib qho kev kawm zoo dua yuav ua rau nws ntxhov siab - lossis ua rau nws poob qis dua. Rau ib tug me nyuam, kev kawm tsis ua hauj lwm yuav ua rau kev poob siab rau tus kheej.
Qes tus kheej tsis tshua pom muaj ntau ntawm cov me nyuam nyuaj siab.
Yog tias koj tsiv los ntawm txoj kev sib nrauj los yog lwm tsev neeg hloov tshiab, koj yuav tsum ua kom zoo rau koj tus me nyuam cov kev xav thiab kev xav. Koj tus me nyuam yuav tsis yog kho kom haum rau ib lub tsev tshiab thiab ib puag ncig, tiam sis muaj ib tsev neeg tshiab.
Kev txav ua ke nrog kev hloov hauv tsev neeg yuav muaj kev puas tsuaj rau tus me nyuam thiab ua rau muaj kev xav tsis zoo, kev cais los yog kev npau taws, uas feem ntau pom muaj kev nyuab siab . Kev ceev koj tus menyuam txoj kev ua ub ua no, ntau npaum li ntau tau, yuav pab tau kom muaj kev ruaj ntseg ntawm nws lub neej.
Thaum nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau koj tus me nyuam ua phooj ywg tshiab hauv nws qhov chaw tshiab, nws tseem ceeb heev rau nws kom muaj kev phooj ywg qub. Cia koj tus me nyuam sib txuas lus thiab pom nws cov phoojywg qub thaum twg los tau. Cov kev sib raug zoo ntxiv uas koj tus menyuam muaj, nws yuav zoo siab thiab muaj peev xwm ua kom nws muaj peev xwm los tsim tau cov phooj ywg tshiab. Tus menyuam uas tsis muaj phooj ywg nrog nws tuaj yeem pib tawm ntawm tsev kawm ntawv thiab kev ua si.
Cov menyuam yaus uas tau muaj kab mob kev nyuab siab yav dhau los, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog kev nyuaj siab, feem ntau yuav muaj lwm lub sij hawm kev nyuaj siab. Raws li Dr. Karl Alexander thiab cov npoj yaig, uas tau luam tawm txoj kev tshawb fawb hauv Phau Ntawv Qhia Txog Kev Kawm Ntawv Tshaj Lij nyob rau xyoo 1996, kev txav yog qhov tseem ceeb hauv lub neej rau cov menyuam. Cov kev tshawb pom tau hais tias tsiv tsev kawm ntawv tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev kub ntxhov thaum muaj niam txiv tuaj yeem kho mob hnyav.
Qee cov me nyuam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov uas muaj kev mob hlwb dhau los, muaj kev nyuaj siab vim yog kev ntxhov siab.
Ceeb toom rau cov cim thiab cov tsos mob thiab xav nrog koj tus menyuam tus kws kho mob tham txog kev npaj khomob ua ntej koj tawm. Koj tuaj yeem xav nug kom xa mus rau ib tus kws khomob tshiab hauv koj lub nroog tshiab.
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Koom nrog pawg neeg hauv zos thiab kev mus cuag cov neeg tshiab yuav qhia koj tus me nyuam tias nws tsis yog nyob ntawm qhov pib. Cia koj tus me nyuam sib tham txog nws txoj kev xav txog qhov kev txav thiab ua siab ntev rau nws kev ntshai. Tsis tas li ntawd, nco ntsoov tsis txhob cia koj tus kheej txhawj xeeb txog qhov kev tawm tsam koj tus menyuam.
Yog tias koj paub tias koj qhov kev txav yuav los nrog kev txhawj xeeb ntxiv, xav txog qhov pib koj tus menyuam hauv kev pab tswv yim.
Qhov no yuav pab tau tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tias nws tau mob dhau los ntawm kev nyuab siab.
Thaum twg nws txais kev nyuaj siab
Hmoov tsis txog qee tus me nyuam, txoj kev ntxhov siab ntawm txoj kev tsiv yuav ua rau muaj cov tsos mob ntawm kev nyuaj siab. Xws li, niam txiv yuav tsum paub txog cov tsos mob ntawm cov menyuam , uas yog:
- Tshem tawm ntawm cov phooj ywg thiab tsev neeg
- Kev quaj ntsuag uas tsis tau qhia
- Coj tus niam txiv
- Kev xav ntawm kev txhaum
- Tsis muaj kev txaus siab ntawm cov khoom ntawm qhov kev txaus siab qub
- Kev poob kev kawm
- Xav lossis ua rau nws tus kheej raug mob
- Cov kev tsis txaus siab tsis tu ncua (xws li, mob taub hau, plab)
- Kev noj qab haus huv thiab / los yog qhov hnyav hloov
- Cov teeb meem tsaug zog
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau tus me nyuam yuav tsum txhawj xeeb txog kev txav mus los. Tej zaum nws yuav xav tau ntau dua thiab paub tseeb tias thawj ob peb lub lim tiam ntawm kev hloov. Tej zaum nws kuj yuav muaj kev cuam tshuam luv luv ntawm kev pw tsaug zog, uas yuav tsum rov qab mus rau ib txwm tsis kho hauv ob peb hnub.
Yog tias koj pom cov tsos mob ntawm kev nyuaj siab, kev coj tus cwj pwm tshiab los sis tsis pom tshwm hauv koj tus menyuam, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb nrog koj tus menyuam tus kws kho mob tham. Ib tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem txiav txim seb yog vim li cas thiab kev kho mob, yog tias tsim nyog. Nws tseem ceeb heev los txheeb xyuas thiab kho kev nyuaj siab thaum ntxov rau cov me nyuam.
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