Tswv yim rau kev coj cwj pwm zoo
Cov me nyuam nrog ADHD teb zoo tshaj plaws rau cov lus qhia uas ncaj qha, yooj yim, thiab meej. Qhov no yuav pab kom koj txoj kev vam meej hauv qab koj cov lus qhia - thiab txoj kev vam meej ua rau tag nrho cov txiaj ntsig ntawm qhov ua tau zoo.
Vim li cas Chatty Cov Lus Qhia Ua Tsis Ua Haujlwm rau ADHD Kids
Niam yog ntxuav tais diav hauv lub dab dej. Cov dej khiav thiab cov tais diav yog clinking. Nws nraub qaum yog muab rau nws, "Joe, tag nrho noj tshais, thiab txhuam koj cov hniav thiab tuav koj lub hnab ev ntawv. Koj tsis xav tuaj lig. Huag, thiab tsis txhob hnov qab mus lob koj qhov project. Nws tau them hnub no thiab koj ua hauj lwm nyuaj rau nws. Tuav kom zoo rau hauv koj lub ceg tawv thaum koj nyob hauv tsheb npav. Koj tsis xav kom txhua yam tshwm sim rau nws. "
Rau ib tug me nyuam nrog ADHD, cov lus qhia muaj suab nrov zoo li qhov no:
"Joe, tas noj mov koj tshais ... ib yam dab tsi txog lub npav ... blah, blah, blah."
Ces Joe yuav cuam tshuam los ntawm lub suab ntawm cov dej ntws hauv cov dab dej, thiab nws ua rau nws xav tias ua luam dej, thiab qhov ntawd ua rau nws xav txog kev hu qaib. Nws zoo rau kev ua luam dej thiab ua si Marco Polo ntawm lub pas dej nrog nws cov kwv tij thiab cov phooj ywg. Nws vam tias Randall tsis nyob ntawm lub pas dej ntau heev rau lub caij ntuj sov no vim tias Randall yog tus thawj coj. Tus ntxhais hauv science chav kawm yog hom bossy, thiab. Joe yuav noj los ntawm nws tus kheej kev xav hloov thiab tsis paub hais tias leej niam sib tham.
Koj tus me nyuam txoj kev ntxhov siab thiab kev tawm tsam tsis yog lub hom phiaj, txawm tias nws yog leej niam leej txiv nws muaj peev xwm heev. Nrog rau cov lus qhia ntev, cov lus qhia tawm, ADHD tus me nyuam pom nws tus kheej hauv kev tshaj lus. Cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb uas koj tab tom sim ua kom yooj yim rau txoj kev ua, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws muaj kev cuam tshuam los ntawm nws tus kheej kev xav lossis khoom mus ncig nws.
Qhov zoo tshaj qhov ua tau zoo raws li koj cov lus qhia, nws tsis nco qab lawv. Qhov no yog ob qho tib si rau koj rau kev ntxhov siab, thiab nws ua kom koj tus menyuam nce siab vim tsis ua tiav.
Qhia Li Cas Rau Cov Lus Qhia Koj Tus Kid tau Ua Raws Li Zoo
Nov yog qee yam lus qhia yooj yim rau koj tus menyuam qhov kev ua raws thaum koj muab nws qhia.
Koj kuj tuaj yeem xav qhia cov lus qhia no nrog koj tus menyuam tus kws qhia ntawv hauv tsev kawm ntawv.
- Thaum muab cov lus qhia, txav mus ze rau ntawm koj tus me nyuam thiab kom nws mloog thaum nws kov nws lub xub pwg los yog caj npab thiab hais nws lub npe.
Xyuas kom koj muaj qhov muag rau koj tus menyuam thaum koj muab kev qhia.
Muab cov lus qhia yooj yim, cov lus qhia ua. Piv txwv, hais tias "Muab koj cov ntawv sau tseg tom tsev hauv koj lub hnab ntawv," tsis yog "Npaj txhij rau tsev kawm ntawv."
Hais lus meej meej hauv lub suab lus.
Yog tias koj xav tau kev piav qhia nws ua ntej muab kev qhia. Piv txwv hais tias, "Peb yuav tsum tau mus rau Grandma txoj cai tom qab kawm ntawv hnub no yog li peb tsis lig rau nws noj hmo Yog tias koj xav ua si nrog cov khoom ua si ntawm tus Grandma, xaiv ib co tawm thiab muab rau kuv tam sim no." Yog tias koj tos thiab hais nws tom qab koj muab koj tus menyuam qhov kev coj ua, nws yuav hnov qab koj thawj cov lus txib.
Tom qab muab kev qhia, tos ob peb feeb thiab nyob twj ywm los ntawm koj tus menyuam kom paub tseeb tias nws tswj nws txoj haujlwm. Yog tias nws ua tiav thiab ua raws nraim li koj cov kev taw qhia, qhuas nws tam sim ntawd rau ib txoj haujlwm zoo. Yog tias koj tsis paub meej nws nkag siab cov lus qhia, nug nws kom rov ua lawv cov lus.
Yog tias koj tus me nyuam tsis ua raws li, muab nws YOG HAIS TIAS ... THAUM lus qhia uas qhia txog koj qhov kev xav tau thiab qhov raug rau qhov tsis ua raws li. Piv txwv li, "Yog tias koj tsis muab daim npliag tso rau hauv koj lub hnab ev tamsis no, koj yuav poob 10 feeb tawm ntawm koj lub computer." Yog tias koj tus me nyuam ua raws nws, qhuas nws. Yog tias nws tsis ua raws li, ua raws li kev poob ntawm ib yam dab tsi , xws li lub sij hawm siv computer.
Ua kom zoo thiab yoog nyob hauv koj txoj kev qhia, thiab nrog lwm tus laus nyob hauv koj tus menyuam lub neej txhawm rau kom koj txhua tus muab tib cov lus tib yam.
Nyeem ntxiv:
Tswv Yim Rau Me Nyuam Rau Cov Niam Txiv
Kev Ua Niam Ua Txiv Koj Tus Hluas Hluav Taws Xob
Lub Tswv Yim Lub Tsev Kawm Ntawv rau Cov Menyuam Yaus
Homework Homework
Source:
Harvey C. Parker, PhD. ADHD Workbook rau Cov Niam Txiv: Phau Ntawv Qhia rau Cov Niam Txiv Uas Muaj Hnub Nyoog 2-12 nrog Kev Tiv Thaiv Mob Huam Teeb Huam Neeg. Tshwj Xeeb Xovxwm, Inc. 2008.