Puas muaj kev tiv thaiv kev kho kom haum rau koj?
Kev hloov kho rau kev tiv thaiv ntawm tus kheej (BPD) yog ib tus kws kho mob uas tsom ntsoov siv kev sib raug zoo nrog koj tus kws kho mob kom hloov koj li cas rau cov neeg hauv lub ntiaj teb.
Dab tsi yog Transference?
Kev hloov yog qhov theoretical txoj kev uas yog tus cwj pwm txawv uas raug xa mus los ntawm ib leeg mus rau lwm tus. Transference yog ib lub tswvyim tseem ceeb hauv psychotherapist psychotherapies.
Hauv cov kev kho mob, nws yog qhov kev pom zoo tias koj cov kev xav txog cov neeg tseem ceeb hauv koj lub neej, xws li koj niam koj txiv lossis koj cov nus muag, raug xa mus rau tus kws kho mob. Tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem xav txog thiab hnov mob rau tus kws kho mob raws li koj xav ua cov cim tseem ceeb hauv lawv lub neej. Nws ntseeg hais tias los ntawm kev hloov, tus kws kho mob tuaj yeem pom zoo li cas koj nrog cov neeg thiab tus kws kho mob siv cov ntaub ntawv no los pab koj tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo.
Cov kws kho mob uas xyaum hloov kev kho rau BPD ntseeg tau hais tias lub ntsiab tseem ceeb ntawm BPD muaj feem xyuam nrog kev sib raug zoo hauv kev loj hlob thaum yau uas txuas ntxiv rau kev cuam tshuam cov hluas thiab cov laus ua haujlwm. Qhov kev tshawb xav yog los ntawm kev sib koom tes nrog peb cov neeg zov me nyuam thaum yau yau, peb muaj kev paub txog nws tus kheej thiab lwm tus neeg lub hlwb. Yog tias muaj qee qhov tsis zoo rau lub sijhawm no txoj kev loj hlob, peb yuav muaj teeb meem ua kom paub txog tus kheej lossis muaj teeb meem ntawm peb txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus neeg.
Vim tias muaj pov thawj qhia tias kev ua tsis zoo rau menyuam yaus los yog cov neeg zov me nyuam ntxov ua rau muaj kev pheej hmoo siab ntawm BPD thiab vim tias cov tsos mob ntawm BPD muaj teeb meem loj hauv kev sib raug zoo thiab kev tsis ruaj khov ntawm kev paub ntawm tus kheej, qee cov kws qhia tau pom zoo tias BPD yuav tsum tau kho los ntawm kev noj qab haus huv kev sib raug zoo los ntawm kev siv cov kev hloov.
Yuav Tau Tshaj Dab Tsi hauv Kev Them Haum Ib Hloov Kho rau BPD
Hauv kev hloov kho rau BPD, qhov ua kom pom tseeb yog nyob rau ntawm kev sib raug zoo ntawm koj thiab tus kws kho mob. Tus kws kho mob tsis tshua muaj kev qhia tswv yim los yog kev qhia koj txog yuav ua li cas. Xwb, tus kws kho mob yuav nug koj txog ntau cov lus nug thiab pab koj tshawb koj cov kev xav thaum lub sijhawm.
Hauv kev hloov kho kev kho mob, qhov tseem ceeb yog muab tso rau tam sim no lub sij hawm tsis dhau yav dhau los. Tsis txhob tham txog seb koj txheeb li cas rau koj cov neeg saib xyuas, koj yuav siv sij hawm ntau tham txog seb koj hais txog koj tus kws kho mob. Tus kws kho mob kuj nyhav nyob nruab nrab ntawm txoj kev kho no thiab yuav tsis pub nws lub tswv yim thiab tsis muaj sab nraud qhov kev kho mob tshwj yog thaum muaj xwm ceev.
Kev Tshawb Pom Kev Tshawb Fawb Txog Kev Thaiv Teeb Meem rau BPD
Cov kev tshawb fawb thawj zaug txhawb kev siv cov kev hloov kho rau BPD. Ib txoj kev tshawb hauv randomized kev tshawb fawb, ib qho ntawm cov kev tshawb fawb tshaj plaws, qhia tau tias qhov kev hloov kho rau qhov sib txawv yog sib npaug rau kev kho tus cwj pwm kev kho (DBT) kom txo qee cov kev mob ntawm BPD, xws li kev xav tua tus kheej, thiab zoo dua DBT hauv txo lwm cov tsos mob xws li kev coj cwj pwm tsis zoo los yog kev npau taws.
Txawm hais tias qhov no yog qhov kev cog lus ua ntej ntawm qhov kev kho no, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau nco txog qhov kev txwv no: Cov neeg mob hauv cov pab pawg neeg hloov txoj kev kho tau txais kev kho mob ntau dua li cov neeg hauv DBT. Thaum nws tseem muaj peev xwm hais tias txoj kev kho kom haum no zoo li yog tias tsis zoo dua DBT thaum txo cov tsos mob ntawm BPD , nws kuj tseem muaj peev xwm ua rau cov neeg mob tau txais kev kho ntxiv. Yuav tsum tshawb nrhiav ntau ntxiv los soj ntsuam txoj kev kho no.
Txawm tias cov kev tshawb fawb ntxiv lawm, koj yuav xav txog kev sib tham nrog koj tus kws kho mob txog seb puas los yog tsis cuam tshuam qhov kev kho yuav ua haujlwm rau koj.
Nws yuav nrog koj tham txog cov kev pabcuam thiab cov kev pabcuam ntawm qhov kev khomob no thiab tuaj yeem muab kev pom zoo rau koj raws li koj qhov teeb meem tshwj xeeb.
Qhov chaw:
Clarkin JF, Levy KN, Lenzenweger MF, & Kernberg NTAWM. "Kev Ntsuam Xyuas Peb Kev Kho Mob Rau Kev Sib Cim Cim Ciam Tiag: Kawm Multiwave." American Journal of Psychiatry , 164: 922-928, 2007.
Yeomans FE, Clarkin JF & Kernberg NTAWM. Ib Tug Qhaub Hloov Ntawm Kev Hloov Qhov Kev Xiam Hlwb Psychotherapy rau Tus Neeg Mob Borderline . Jason Aronson, xyoo 2002.