Tinder yog ib qho tshiab ntxiv rau lub ntiaj teb ntawm cybersex . Nws yog feem ntau tau piav raws li ib daim ntawv ntawm kev sib tham hauv online, tab sis kev sib tham tsis yog ib qho ntawm txoj kev. Es, tinder yog ib qho app uas muab ib daim duab thiab tsawg heev txog ib pab neeg coob, thiab cov neeg siv yuav txiav txim siab seb lawv puas nyiam "ib yam li" los sis tsis yog, swiping qhov screen rau sab laug lossis sab xis.
Txhua lub sij hawm ib tug neeg "nyiam," lawv cov smartphone cia lawv paub. Yog tias lawv "nyiam" tus neeg rov qab, ob tug neeg tuaj yeem raug txuas los ntawm lawv cov xov tooj, uas tuaj yeem ua rau kev sib txuas lus ntxiv, thiab muaj peev xwm, lub rooj sib tham ntawm lub neej sib tham txog kev sib deev thiab / los yog poj niam txiv neej.
Compulsive Swiping
Online tawm tswv yim txog tinder tau qhia tias ntau tus neeg siv ntawm lub cuab yeej nrhiav nws yees, piav txog lub compulsion los siv sij hawm txhua hnub swiping los ntawm cov duab, thiab ntawm cov hoob kawm, tau txais instant gratification los ntawm "nyiam" lawv tau txais. Thaum tsis muaj kev tshawb fawb qhia seb puas muaj kev tiv thaiv kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj yuav ua rau muaj kev puas siab ntsws, nws sib koom ua ke nrog kev sib daj sib deev thiab yees siv yees duab. Kev sib xyaw ua ke ntawm ob qho kev yeeb yam hauv ib qho no yuav ua rau nws muaj peev xwm ua tau ntau yam, tab sis nws tseem tsis paub meej tias nws yog qhov teeb meem hauv nws tus kheej.
Kev sib txuas nrog kev sib deev nrog kev sib deev
Cov zoo sib xws sib koom nrog kev sib daj sib deev muaj feem xyuam nrog qhov xwm txheej ntawm kev sib ntaus sib tua txog kev sib deev provocative.
Thaum lub ntsej muag txhaj tshuaj uas tib neeg xa lawv tus kheej, uas yog lub hauv paus ntawm kev txiav txim thawj rau lwm tus los "nyiam" lossis tsis, tsis yog kev sib daj sib deev, cov ntawv ceeb toom hauv cov ntawv luam tawm hauv Marie Claire thiab Vanity Fair, qhia tias cov ntawv sau ntawm cov neeg tuaj koom yog ib qho, ob qho tag nrho ntawm cov lus sib tham kev sib daj sib deev, thiab kev sib deev tsis zoo.
Raug kev tshwm sim rau ntau yam kev sib daj sib deev ua rau kam rau siab - ib qho kev mob tshwm sim ntawm kev tiv thaiv , qhov twg ntau dua thiab ntau yam uas yog thawj zaug zoo siab thiab xav ua kom tau zoo tib yam.
Cov neeg koom nrog kuj tau tshaj tawm tias muaj ntau tus neeg koom nrog kev sib deev sib torn. Thaum nws tseem tsis paub tseeb tias cov dab neeg uas tau tshaj tawm tau ua tau qhov tseeb, los yog seb cov neeg koom tes feem ntau sib koom nrog cov neeg mob siab, yog tsis paub. Tsis tas li qhov tsis zoo ntawm qhov "nyiam," nws tsis yooj yim ntseeg tias muaj kev txhawb zog rau cov poj niam mus txuas ntxiv siv tinder ua ib txoj kev los ntsib cov neeg koom nrog cov neeg koom tes, muab cov kev ua tsis zoo thiab tsis txaus siab uas tau tshaj tawm, tshwj tsis yog tias lawv exploiting tus txheej txheem raws li ib daim ntawv ntawm kev sib deev ua hauj lwm. Txawm li cas los xij, compulsive searching ntawm ntau tus neeg ntawm kev sib deev, txawm nyob rau hauv lub ntsej muag ntawm unsatisfying thiab teeb meem kev tshwm sim, yog ib tug cim qhia ntawm qee hom cybersex neeg siv .
Kev sib txuas rau yees duab kev ua si yees duab
Muaj qee leej kuj tau hais tias qhov tsis txaus siab ntawm kev tear ntau dua nrog kev yees duab yees kev yees duab thiab siv qhov kev siv yees siv compulsive, qhov tseeb, tsuas yog lwm hom yees duab yees kev yees. Taryn Hilin, piv txwv li, cav tias tinder addicts tau yooj yim dua rau ntawm qhov kev ua si zoo li qhov cuab lub zog, thiab muab nthuav rooj plaub, raws li kev sib tham nrog cov kws txawj.
Txwj Laug Kev Tawm
Txawm li cas los xij, rau ib tug cwj pwm kom muaj yees, nws tsis yog tsuas yog ua kom khoo , rau qhov chaw uas cov neeg siv tsis muaj peev xwm tswj tau tus cwj pwm, tab sis nws tseem yuav tsum tau ua ntxiv mus rau lub ntsej muag uas tsis zoo. Tsis muaj kev tshawb nrhiav qhov tseeb los teb cov lus nug no, nws tseem tsis paub meej tias cov neeg siv mus txuas lub sijhawm thaum nws ua teeb meem rau lawv tus kheej. Nws tseem tsis paub meej tias tinder yog teeb meem ntau dua li lwm txoj kev ntawm pib lam sib deev.